Last night a dear friend, whose son died almost three years ago, gave me a sheet of paper upon which were written the following words:
This poem is often read at funerals. The author, Henry Scott-Holland (1847-1918), a priest at St. Paul’s Cathedral of London, did not intend it as a poem, it was actually delivered as part of a sermon in 1910. The sermon, titled, “Death the King of Terror” was preached while the body of King Edward VII was lying in state at Westminster.
Death Is Nothing At All
Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Nothing as happened.
Everything remains exactly as it was.
I am I, and you are you,
and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the easy way which you always used.
Put no difference into your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolute and unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval,
somewhere very near,
just round the corner.
Mrs. Anderson,
When Elizabeth did her overnight visit at Episcopal, she stayed in my room. My roommate was Candice Hall, from your hometown. That was 20 years ago. Elizabeth was shy, quiet, but sweet. And so open, and eager. When she became a student, she was friends with my friends. It was such a small school. We did not spend time together, but she made quite an impact. So kind, bright, a track star. Her loss was felt campus wide. I went to the funeral, and the lovely memorial celebration at your home. I’ve lived a whole life since that time, but Elizabeth has visited my thoughts often, as has your family. Knowing her, and the experience of losing her had quite an impact on me. I think of her often, and y’all as a default. I just wanted you to know that her spirit has lived for me all these years later. I send all my love to your family. Most sincerely, Mandy Ross, EHS 1996
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Dear Mandy,
I will cherish your words forever. Thank you for writing to let me know that Elizabeth is still in your life. She lives on in many ways, one of which is in my granddaughter who looks very much like her. I hope you are enjoying your life here on earth. Elizabeth would want that for you. Smile when you think of her, as I do. She loved us all and is with us always.
Fondly,
Betsy Anderson
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