Because it rained so hard yesterday, I brought some magic lilies inside this morning, wanting to enjoy them before the rain battered them more. I was thinking of my Grandma Anna, Aunt Mamie (on whose birthday mine began to bloom–it would have been her 101st), cousins John, Anna, Wilbur, both Aunt Graces, Aunt Wilma, Cindy and other friends and family whose birthdays are this month (including my own).
This heirloom flower (from 1889, the year Grandma Anna was born) is Lycoris Squamigera, an Asiatic wildflower in the amaryllis family that grows in woodlands in China and Japan—and in the rural south in this country too.
My grandmother called them “our birthday flowers” because they bloomed in August, and every year was a surprise, their stalks emerging overnight with several pink trumpet-like blooms where there had been nothing the day before.
The bulbs produce thick lush daffodil-like foliage in the spring, then once the foliage dies down, nothing visible remains. It’s easy to assume that the plant died and nothing will come of the promise of that green foliage. In late July and early August though, the stalks appear overnight and the blooms come, pink wings fluttering in the breeze and the sunlight shining through their translucent petals.
I have wondered where my grandmother found the magic lily bulbs that she planted. She lived all her life in two rural counties, never drove a car, raised twelve children and cared for several of us cousins and other family members. Where did she get an Asiatic wildflower?
My mother told me that either Miss Molly or Miss Plut (short for Plutina), who both lived in a grand house on a hill we called the Molly Hill, may have given them to her.
Passalong flowers.

Cindy photographed this line of magic lilies at the home that was once my grandmother’s. The magic lilies still bloom after all these years.
My magic lilies are from my mother’s and my aunt’s beds of them, and they both brought them from Grandma Anna’s plantings. The ones I brought inside this morning are at least 100 years old.
These flowers speak of longevity, survival, persistence—and surprise. They still seem magic to me whether they are called resurrection lilies, naked lady lilies (now, that’s an interesting thought) or magic lilies.
My daughter was named for my two grandmothers, Elizabeth and Anna. I wish I could show her the blooms this morning and tell her the story of my grandmother’s lilies. I would tell her that not only does she share her name with my grandmother and my cousin, but now one of her nieces also has the name. I would tell her that the lilies still give me hope, that I feel so sad at missing her, but I have hope that she has new life.
I drove by the house that was my grandmother’s earlier this week and saw magic lilies lining a fence that divided her yard from what was then my Uncle Boyd and Aunt Gladys’s yard. Despite grass that had not been cut, the line of magic lilies lifted their blooms above the scraggly weeds and looked for all the world like graceful ballerinas.
Then I drove by Cindy’s childhood home and remembered her parents and her grandmother. There in the front yard, all by themselves beneath a shade tree were two magic lilies, resurrected from a long ago planting. They looked like proud sentinels standing at attention in a yard full of memories. They looked like hope.
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Kay, I was looking for info about the next Writing Toward Healing workshop, one thing led to another, and I came across your wonderful post about magic lilies. The photos, your writing, and of course the lilies themselves are beautiful. Most of all, though, I was inspired by the magical meaning of these lovely, surprising, and enduring flowers. They convey so much about both your and Elizabeth’s spirit and grace. I wish I could have known her, but I have a feeling that by knowing you, I know her too.
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Thank you for sharing those thoughts about the magic lilies, Elizabeth and all they represent.I would have loved it had she been able to be in one of your classes.
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Bud’s mother called them naked ladies because they emerge naked, not dressed in any leaves or greenery. We have them now, transplanted from Lexington, KY. I think of her often.
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Barbara, It’s a comfort to remember dear ones by the flowers they passed to us. And in California last week, one of my granddaughters found magic lilies at Ardenwood Farms, a farm operating much as it would have in nineteenth century California with, as they are described on the website, “elaborate Victorian Gardens.”
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Kay, your love is so evident in your writings. I am so glad you are my very precious friend. Blessings to you as you travel and celebrate your birthday. You are loved!
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Thank you, Janet.
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I love the flowers. I love the message of hope. To me, all lilies are a message of hope and resurrection…new life. I have planted a flower garden of perennials in memory of my son, Brandon. March 6th was the five year anniversary of his passing. It is the Easter lily that emerges in Brandon’s Garden every year along with a variety of perennials.
Thank you for your lovely post. I am sorry for your loss and the other mothers who have eloquently written and shared their grief and their memories of each child at Farther Along ( a wonderful hymn,btw, that my pastor had shared with me after my son’s passing.)
I hope you have a peaceful and blessed birthday this month.
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Thank you for your comment and your birthday wishes. And I am so sorry for your loss and glad that the flowers bring hope as they bloom for him and for you too. All of us mothers whose children have died before us, who are farther along some days and some days are not, join you in missing them. And we all vouch for the power of writing as balm in this journey.
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Beautiful flowers/photos! Aroma? Happy Birthday to you. -Judy
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Magic lilies do have a delicate aroma—not bossy like stargazer lilies, but gentler. Thanks, Judy. I looked at those straight stalks and thought they looked flute-like too.
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Kay, thank you for brightening this dreary rainy morning! As always, your sentiments about our family flood my memory with happy memories. Love and Happy Birthday. Pat
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Pat,
Someone dear once told me that home is not so much a physical place as a psychic one–home is in our hearts, but the physical reminders, like the magic lilies, certainly nudged me to remember family and home and sweet times and to embrace hope. Now I am thinking about the swing from the big tree in your yard. Thank you for the birthday wishes too.
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Kay,
Such a beautiful heart felt writing. Thank you for sharing with all of us
Love,
Monica
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Thank you for being a wise and faithful reader and friend for all of these years.
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Thanks so much sharing the magic of these lilies! When are you going to write a children’s book about them?
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Hmmm. Thanks, Julie. I appreciate the passalongs you have given me too: Rose of Sharon and false indigo and lavender, all beautiful.
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A beautiful story!!! And, the Lilies are beautiful!!!
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Janet, I hope yours will bloom too. I read this morning that sometimes they wait up to eight years to bloom once they are planted! I suppose patience is also part of this flower’s message.
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