40 Years
It is almost too hard to believe 40 years ago this day I was asked on my first date To …
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GROW UP!
I read an MSN online article this morning. It was a list of 25 things every woman should do in …
Goodbye/Hello
It took my cousin four weeks longer than she expected to die. Her body failed her about three years ago. …
Mistaken identities
The headline in The New Yorker immediately caught my eye: “A Death in the Database.” The blog post by Amy …
Penelope’s web: The warp and woof of grief
This piece was written at a writing toward healing symposium in Warrenton, Virginia in November 2012. Carol Henderson was leading …
Smile
I ran into an old friend recently with news that made me smile. A genuine smile. The kind that begins …
Long Shadows
A few months ago, a New York Times article caught my eye. I clipped and saved it. When I was …
Blessings
Blessings come in small packages (and in sympathy cards). It has been almost 13 years since Katie died. I opened …
Light of Christmas
Christmas night See the light Shining star, burning bright Christmas cheer Far and near Memories lasting many years …
Light and dark
“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has …
Daughters
In response to a prompt of a picture: A little girl at the top of a playground slide….. I’m helping …
The Beginning….
So I found this writing recently. A friend gave me a journal and said, “It might help to record your …
What the Heart Cannot Forget
Joyce Sutphen’s poem “What the Heart Cannot Forget” has been weaving itself in and out of my thoughts and memories …
Why They Loved Me
Prompt Writing. Fall Retreat. Oct. 19, 2013 I have often thought about what Wes and Andy would say to me …
Inside Out, 1998
Mixed media 12×12 As the months passed following Rebecca’s death, I came to a startling awareness that my inside feelings …
Surviving Suicide?
I heard on the news recently that the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention has designated Saturday, November 23 as the …
Grace Church
It’s Halloween night. Time to appease with candy treats the tricksters who appear at my door or look into my …
One Big Family
October 14, 2013 A young man posted this on my Facebook page today, “I only knew Andy for a short …
Minus One
Cohen has carried a copy of our book around for three weeks. I discovered it in a random pocket of …
It’s Not Enough Time
I carried her in my swollen belly for only eight months when my water broke—not enough time for a healthy …
Farther Along 